{"id":3023,"date":"2015-11-10T17:00:15","date_gmt":"2015-11-10T17:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/avifes.org\/?p=3023"},"modified":"2021-10-22T14:15:14","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T12:15:14","slug":"3023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/avifes.org\/eu\/3023\/","title":{"rendered":"SER TLP, un fluctuar constante"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas1.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas1.png\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3039 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" alt=\"comillas1\"   \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3039\" src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas1.png\" alt=\"comillas1\" width=\"30\" height=\"23\"><\/noscript><\/a>Te levantas un d\u00eda de la cama y todo te sienta mal, incluso la pregunta m\u00e1s inocente. Tu madre, padre, pareja, amigo y dem\u00e1s personas que puedan relacionarse contigo vienen por el pasillo, y se dirigen a ti y te preguntan <span style=\"color: #99cc00;\">\u201c<em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 vas a desayunar?\u201d<\/em><\/span> Y tu respuesta es <span style=\"color: #99cc00;\">\u201c<em>Desayunar\u00e9 lo que me salga de los ovarios<\/em>\u201d<\/span>. Imaginad la cara de la persona interpelante y la reacci\u00f3n que se puede suscitar en esa persona. No muy buena \u00bfverdad? Otra situaci\u00f3n: un d\u00eda tu pareja es la ideal y al d\u00eda siguiente la mandar\u00edas a tomar por donde amargan los pepinos.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0Si no logras manejar este tipo de comportamiento tu pareja se volver\u00e1 loca. No es f\u00e1cil manejarlo. Yo a veces lo consigo, lo que me hace pensar que se puede hacer, aunque requiere un esfuerzo a nivel emocional tremendo. Pero en ocasiones lo he logrado.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Entiendo que por este tipo de situaciones la convivencia con un TLP (trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad) no sea f\u00e1cil, yo soy TLP y reconozco que a veces aguantarme no pueda ser lo mejor del mundo. Pero tambi\u00e9n los TLP somos seres sensibles y atormentados que vivimos en una continua zozobra, no somos as\u00ed porque queramos, no lo hacemos a posta, y adem\u00e1s sufrimos por lo que hacemos. <strong>A veces no entendemos por qu\u00e9 reaccionamos as\u00ed, no nos gusta, pero muchas veces somos incapaces de hacerlo de otra manera.<\/strong> A veces lloramos, y mucho, porque en vez de pensar l\u00f3gicamente ante un comportamiento de alguien cercano, el sentimiento que se cierne sobre nosotros es \u201c<em>no me quier<\/em>e\u201d y reaccionamos llorando y pensamos que la culpa es nuestra, cuando es culpa de la enfermedad.<\/p>\n<p><img data-srcset=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones.jpg 400w, https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones-300x200.jpg 300w\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3131 size-full lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" alt=\"\"    sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3131 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones.jpg 400w, https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/emociones-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Si esto te parece duro amigo es s\u00f3lo un peque\u00f1o ejemplo de lo que un TLP puede llegar a sentir. T\u00fa te puedes sentir mal por como reaccionamos, <strong>pero imag\u00ednate c\u00f3mo nos sentimos nosotros reaccionando as\u00ed sin ni siquiera saber el porqu\u00e9<\/strong>. No es f\u00e1cil convivir con este maldito trastorno para nosotros y menos si, en vez de intentar ayudar y aceptar, intent\u00e1is comprender lo que nos ocurre, <strong>no se puede comprender algo que no tiene explicaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Pierdes un ser querido y tu mundo se derrumba como las torres gemelas de nueva York el 11 de septiembre, y t\u00fa pensando que eso no es normal y tienes prisa por salir de ese maldito estado, con lo que generas una ansiedad que se retroalimenta y acaba en trastorno de p\u00e1nico. Si para ti es horrible imagina para m\u00ed que no puedo huir de ello. T\u00fa puedes alejarte, irte, dejar de hablarme, odiarme, pero yo no puedo huir de mi misma, estoy atrapada en este horror de turbulencia sentimental, s\u00e9 que no es f\u00e1cil estar conmigo, pero yo, familiar, amigo, pareja y persona allegada, te quiero. A veces puedes sentirte usado por m\u00ed y puedes decir que no eres el chico de los recados y con mucha raz\u00f3n, pero piensa que en ese momento yo no soy consciente de que te utilizo y quiz\u00e1 necesite esa reprimenda, c\u00f3mo me siente es otra cosa con la que tendr\u00e9 que lidiar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Como ves ser TLP es como una aut\u00e9ntica maldici\u00f3n, y el primero en ser v\u00edctima de esa maldici\u00f3n es el propio enfermo. Con esto <strong>no pretendo ser victimista ni hacer que te sientas culpable, s\u00f3lo quiero que atisbes lo que puedo llegar a sentir<\/strong>. Dicen los que investigan estas cosas que se mezclan factores gen\u00e9ticos, biol\u00f3gicos, ambientales, la educaci\u00f3n que hayas tenido, los modelos que tuvieras en casa, o sea todo tu entorno adem\u00e1s de cualquier suceso que te haya afectado en tu vida. Supongo que en mi caso tambi\u00e9n habr\u00e1 habido algo de eso, cosas sin mala intenci\u00f3n que han hecho que mi personalidad no se forme correctamente y sea como es, y ahora est\u00e9 condenada a esta cruel maldici\u00f3n de por vida.<a href=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas2.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas2.png\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3043 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" alt=\"comillas2\"   \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3043\" src=\"https:\/\/avifes.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/comillas2.png\" alt=\"comillas2\" width=\"30\" height=\"21\"><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Te levantas un d\u00eda de la cama y todo te sienta mal, incluso la pregunta m\u00e1s inocente. 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